Meaning of love, Phoenix

I love you... a three letter phrase, with more then one meaning in our society.

Sadly in our society it commonly refers to what I want. People tell someone they love them quite commonly. In our society this is what it means for some people: "I want to use you for my own personal gain. I'll only be using you as long as you suit my wants/needs, and when someone else can do it better, well tough luck, it doesn't bother me, since I get what I want"
This is Shallow! That's not what love means. It's on the other side of the universe from this "meaning". That's not love it's called being self-centered!

What is love supposed to mean then? Love should mean: "I care for you, I place what you want ahead of what I want. I want what's in your best interest, and I'm willing to sacrifice what I want for you. I place your well being above my own." This doesn't just apply to a romantic relationship. Love applies in any family (at least it should). Like siblings for example, they mess around but in the end they're loyal. Any kind of phrase with this meaning shouldn't be cast around lightly in any way! It's no wonder why so many dating relationships (I've never been in one myself, so I don't know what it's like for it to end badly) end badly, when there's these two definitions of love floating around. The love that one of the parties means, isn't what the other believes it to be! And for the one who holds the Deep meaning, it always ends badly!

John 3:16 "For God so loved the world he gave his one and only Son..."

Now what does this verse become when using the two different definitions of love...

First, the shallow version which translates: God loved himself so much, and wanted what was in his best interest so he gave his only son who was perfect, to save us from all of our countless sins. That makes no sense! This can't be the definition of love!

Now the deeper version (which is the true meaning of love): "God, who cared for our well being more then we can imagine, gave his one and only Son, to save us from our sins."
That makes much more Sense!

Jesus loved everyone! He associated with people some Christians won't even look at. He associated with the people some Christians condemn, but never try and help. Not only did he associate with them, but he Loved them, and if he loved them so should all people who profess Christ. Jesus was so far above us, yet he associated with us. Yet some of us won't associate with certain people, who are in the same position we are. For we all have sinned, and need Christ to get into heaven. Yet, some of us ignore them, and all they do is tell them God hates what they're doing. Instead we should be showing them love. God sees them as worthy of his kingdom. Yet some tell them they aren't. Who are we to say whether they're worthy or not. It that's the case those people might as well say they know better then God. Some are even getting those people farther away from God. How horrible of a sin is that! What's worse then to lead someone away from Christ, and eternal life!

Those of us judge them excessively. We judge them by Christian standards, which these people have never agreed to be bound to. This makes us appear as a judgemental group. We are making Christianity unappealing to some people, and some resent us! We're supposed to spread love to the world, not hate. The only thing we should hate is our selves, and the evil one. These people need to be freed, The way to do this isn't by condemnation. It's by showing them love, and exemplify Christ to them by our own actions. How can they see God's love when all we show them what we don't like in them? We can't.

There's no greater tragedy then the Spiritual condemnation of a person. Do you want to go to God with the burden of creating more distance between another person and God? I sure wouldn't.

Love is powerful. Love is what has been shown to us through Christ.

P.S. Phoenix is a stage two mantid. It means he molted. But, it wasn't a success, or a failure. He's suffered a Major injury. Alive, but severely handicapped. I had to help him out of his skin. It took 10 minutes, 9 trying to get him to get himself out. I lost my patience and grapped as close to the skin I could get, and thankfully I got his two back legs out. I could've easily ripped his legs apart, but thankfully unlike all the other times I tried this, it didn't happen. His legs are mangled beyond the knee joint though. Right now I would say Phoenix is the least likely mantid to make it to adulthood. He went from the most likely, to the least likely. He needs to eat, if he doesn't by tomorrow, then there isn't anything I can do. It's all up to him now. If he was adult, or a few molts away from it, then I would be able to hand feed him, but he's way too small at this stage in the game. I really hope Phoenix lives up to his name, and like the Phoenix in mythology rise up out of the ashes. This picture shows it quite clearly.


yeah it's pretty bad...

Friendship

Friendship requires Trust. a good indicator of trust is whether or not a person is willing to confide in you. Another is Faith. Faith can either be something small or it can be something big. In my opinion, willingly falling asleep in the presence of a particular person, shows that you trust them. Because, when you fall asleep you are completely helpless. Another indication of Faith is asking their opinion about something. Something like that is an indicator of the building up of trust, at the least. Friendship can be extremely powerful. David's friendship with Jonathan, kept him from falling to Saul's blade.

Let's explore the signs of friendship. Playful joking is one, you don't playfully joke around with someone you don't trust. It's a sign you're comfortable with this person. Now when you joke about yourself to them, there's obviously more trust between the two. These two are very comfortable with each other, a sign of a close friendship in my opinion. Even more so when this is a common occurrence between the two. Another good sign of friendship is when you reveal things to them you wouldn't normally reveal to people. Or when you're not afraid to tell them something embarrassing, the more recent, the more embarrassing it is to you.

Now what's the sign that one is a close friend with someone?
This cannot be judged by the ammount of time you've known them, their age, or anything like that. There are people who just fit with you like puzzle pieces do. If you are open, and don't automatically hold some people higher then others you can figure out who are your close friends.

I know I don't have many close friends, but there are a few, some close, while some are far. Now a days, distance is no longer a barrier to being close friends. What are signs you're close with someone? Just think about people you know. What comes to mind about them? What are their qualities? I'll use my friend Kyle as an example:

When I think of Kyle, I think...
Trustable, like a brother, we get along really well, respectable, and always fun to be around. The trait I think of the most is trustable. That's a good trait for a close friend!

A good thing for a friendship is face-to-face communication, but it's not absolutely necessary for a close friendship. It's more difficult to be close friends without it though. If this does occur that's quite a feat. But the friendship should expand past the area of how you met them. What constitutes as moving beyond this? You are trying to get to know them! This is an interest in this person, and who they are. That's what close friends are, People who get to know who their friends are.

There are different dynamics to a friendship built by the internet. It can be difficult to figure who you're close with on the te internet. In my opinion you can figure it out though.

Who do you talk to? If you consider them a friend, then think about them. What qualities do you see in them? Now if you struggle to get a couple, then you may not really know them that well, or you have trouble identifying their qualities. What are your conversation with this person like?
Do your/their emails going back and forth stay on thier original topic? or do you end up talking about something else? Sometimes close friends can be very similar to yourself , sharing many interests, qualities, and beliefs. But what about the differences? How do conversations go with this person, when you talk to them about your differing opinions? They should listen, and respect your position. For they should like you for who you are, not for the fact you always agree with them. They should care for you, otherwise they just want you to be them.

Next: our society on love, and what love is

Creation 2; bad pen.

Stabbed

I was trying to get to my dad's notebook, and a little wrestling match broke out I was trying to free my feet by rolling overtop of my dad who was imitating the St.Louis arch, and I got stabbed my a pen in his back pocket (the cap was on it, but still), that effectively ended it. I did end up getting it though :P

Tomarrow is the last normal school day before final exams begin.

As you know in WWII Germany did their best to wipe out the Jews. How did they get to genocide? Where did it start? An influential person read Darwin's book, and applied the survive of the fittest to their agenda, it eventually became part of the third Reich. and eventually led to the persecution of the Jews. Evolution is the opposite of Creationism.

I believe the world is thousands of years old, as opposed to millions, as soom Christians believe, but as long as they have Christ, I don't think one's opinion of such a matter will void his/her place in heaven.
(edit Aug 8: though to me, I could believe either one really)

Creation.

So the question has been asked me, by my dad, which apparently was a jeopardy question.

How many of each animal did moses take on the arc?
underline the section between the double quotes at the bottom to see the answer


My answer at the bottom in single quotes

A good book I was looking at again.

The Evolution Handbook

It's not what you may think though. It's actually a book systematically going through all the arguments for evolution, and disproving them. Quite convincingly at that.

Some things it goes through: the age of the earth, dating methods, DNA/ protein, fossils/ stratas, the flood, laws of nature. To me 10 pages of the tectonic section, really discredits evolution, but this book is 968 pages long!!!! One of the best books I've ever read, it made it so easy that you'll be asking "How in the world is there as many atheists and agnostics as there are?". There's tons of evidence in this book.
the evolution cruncher)



"None, it was noah that was on the arc"

'I guessed 7 pairs unclean, 2 pairs clean'

That would be the correct answer, if it had been Noah, that was in the question, duh me... hehe

Creekside

We went to creekside park, it was hot, 90 degrees. Caught some fish for now they'll be using the 55 gallon, the ammonia spike won't hit until a few more days. The mantid Snips is dying, nothing can be done. He's too weak to catch anything, but for now he can move, slightly. He'll be dead by tomarrow if not before then. That leaves Mystery, and Phoenix in container 1. I named the three in container 2

Hatchet- had a bent antenna, but it seems to have been severed where it was bent at around a 40 degree angle. hence the name hatchet.

Ideal- The ideal mantid, his antennas, legs, claws, and body are unblemished. No defects that I can see. Also he eats well.

Munch- He's container 2's equivalent of container 1's Phoenix. Eats a bunch, as much as his tiny body can handle. Ideal eats less, but still he fills out.

All the remaining Mantid's look good.

A picture of a swan at Creekside



























I look soooo happy to be washing the plant substrate, which I mixed with the pond rocks, that were already in the tank ;) (I mixed them while they were inside the waterless tank).
I think it took around a hour and a half to finish setting it up from, when I began to wash the substrate. some of which was spent setting up this shot....

Some fishkeepers mind getting their hands/arms wet, which is kinda silly, if you keep fish you WILL get wet. Might as well get used to it. I don't mind it anymore, not even a nuisance to me. Actually when I need to get dry quickly I rolled down my sleeves, and rubbed them against my arms to dry them off. I'm a fishkeeper who actually enjoys getting his hands wet. The reasons for this are simple. First of all, using your hands is more precise, second, it's it's more flexible then any apparatus you can buy, and it's cheaper (unless you're keeping some fish which poses a danger to your hand, like a piranha). But, personally I've never gotten my hand injured by neon tetras :)

I almost forgot how calming of an effect the sound of running water has on me. *breaths deeply, exhales, saying ah, as one does with a calming effect*

Fish

well I finished set up the 55 gallon, the final parts of the gravel/substrate was added, as well the the heater, filter (bought a new one, same type as before), water parameter tester, thermometer, aquatic plants, and of course added water. Fiesta (aka shift) [fiesta was his original name which I forgot until I found him], and Shorte died. That leaves three alive in container 1: Pheonix, Mystery, and Snips. Pictures of set of aquarium to come soon. I should be able to get some fish after, the ammonia spike is over (The ammonia spike is part of the Nitrogen cycle. It occurs as part of the ecological maturation of the tank). Ammonia is the most toxic of the three, followed by a smaller Nitrite spike, which is less toxic, and ends with a small Nitrate spike, Nitrate has a real low toxicity to fish. I'd say at least by next weekend I should be able to get fish if not sooner.

In bible last week after watching "Lord save us from your followers" we were asked basically, if you had a gay friend would you go to wedding if it was to the same sex?

My answer: Yes.
I wouldn't go in support of their actions, but as their frined. I would tell them beforehand I don't agree with their choice in the marriage, but I would be coming because they're my friend. Remember Jesus was commonly seen with drunkards, and such people. He didn't hate them, no He loved them, but he didn't like some of the choices they made. We should love them, and dislike their actions, but they will be accountable to God for their actions. By hating them we could very easily cause them to turn away completely from God. God loves them, just as he loves us, and if he hates them, he would hate us all. But, thankfully he's a loving God.

Adoption

My adoption story, as told by my dad
Note: I don't believe he said this but that's not my birth-mother's name...

And I think the odds of MPS "disappearing" are extremely under exaggerated, to say the least. The others are quite conservative as well. I just noticed, Penny's mentioned in there.